Love Letter #9: Reality Check!

In a recent conversation, a group of savvy entrepreneurs dug deep into the concept of reality. We got real about how each person’s reality is unique, depending on their beliefs and perceptions. We also tackled the idea of things going off-script (as in – not going the way you think they should 😁) , which could be a good thing, but expectations can cloud our vision. 

Let’s talk about “expectancy,” not to be confused with “expectation.”

Expectation is like trying to control everything and often leads to grumpy moods and disappointments. In our productivity-obsessed society, it’s easy to fall into this trap. T limits the limitless ways in which the Universe can deliver the goods. 

IBut expectancy is different. It’s like a relaxed trust fall. You know what you want, but you’re not attached to how it will happen. You take action that is aligned with what you want, then you let go and let the universe do its thing.

For example, let’s talk about a gal who wants to move to Paris. She visualizes it, researches neighborhoods, and applies for jobs. But she doesn’t get hung up on the details or force the universe’s hand. She just stays open and trusts that it will happen. Lo and behold, a couple of years later, she’s sipping espresso in the city of lights, with a job and a lover. (True story 🥰)

So, if you have something you’re dreaming of, hold that vision and let go of the how. Trust that the universe has your back and knows the best way to make it happen. Who knows? You might just get a surprise package delivered to your doorstep.

What do you think? Let’s manifest some magic!

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