Welcome! I’m Elaine Blais, a midlife troublemaker and certified life coach. I work with women who are ready to reclaim their personal power through the Art of Self-Approval so you can confidently put yourself first and create more of what you want in life. I call that living into the fullness of who you are here to be...and she is magnificent!

I spent much of my life pleasing others and trying not to be difficult. That made life all the more difficult for me. Over time, and with lots of support, I realized the power in reclaiming what I perceived made me difficult and approving of all of me. From there, I began writing a new story for my life and that has made all the difference.

Woman + Difficult = Powerful

Ready to step into your power? I'd love to support you in your journey.

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You're in the right spot if you...

  • Feel like you don't fit your life - or your life isn't fitting you.
  • Don't feel lit up or satisfied by your career, relationships, or home.
  • Have fallen out of love with things (or people).
  • Are questioning who you are, the meaning of life, who you’re becoming, and what comes next...
  • Wondering, “Is this all there is?”
  • May have had a great life so far, but feel dissatisfied and slightly judgmental of yourself because you're not happy with the life you've created.
  • Feel restless and ready to change, but aren't clear on what you want.
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Your feelings matter.

You might feel like you need permission to live your dream life - but you don't. Change is scary - and it's important to give yourself grace for wanting more than what you have. Wanting more in your life doesn't mean you don't love your life or love what you have - it means you've only scratched the surface of your soul's potential to soar.

I want to help you do that.

I know exactly how you feel because I am living this adventure of my own. After 25 years in corporate, years of co-dependency, people pleasing, and perfectionism, I found my way back to myself and The Art of Self-Approval. You too can change your life. One small step at a time.

I was feeling stuck after a divorce and losing my daughter. The work we did together made a big difference in my life. I wanted to move to Florida and start a new life with my partner. Something kept me from actually taking steps to make it happen. Elaine helped me snap out of it and I started seeing myself as worthy and deserving of the life I wanted. Now, it’s all happened!  We also sold the house up north putting us in a position to have a nice nest egg and that inground pool I wanted (another little dream realized).  

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