Welcome to The Art of Self-Approval

Become the Alchemist of Your Life!

Are you feeling stuck in the mud of life?

Many are right now. But there's a way out...

As an Imperfection Alchemist, I embrace "low-frequency" emotions instead of judging or dismissing them. By welcoming these feelings, I help them rise from the mud to higher frequencies. You too are an everyday alchemist with the power to transform your life. Change begins within you.

To step into the world of energy alchemy, you need to start acting in harmony with this truth. Disowning your darkness and pain allows them to own you! What we resist persists. But by connecting with your divinity, your inner alchemist, you can dissolve darkness into light.

I practice alchemy daily in my life and work. Here’s how...

  1. Connect Authentically with the Present Moment: If you can’t be where you are, you can’t move beyond it.
  2. Embrace Presence: We’ve been conditioned to be distracted and resistant. Learn to focus and be present.
  3. Be Neutral: Judgment binds us unconsciously to our pain. Neutrality frees us.

This isn’t about wallowing in the mud. It’s about rising from it. Remember, no mud, no lotus. Realize your inner power and eternal light, so you no longer shrink from the darkness.

Alchemy is my true nature, and it's yours too - if you choose it.

Energy cannot be destroyed - but it can be shifted and alchemized when we embrace the present moment. Everything leads us to a higher path, raising our consciousness.

When we are authentic at the moment, we connect with old buried feelings. It''s important to be with them - to allow them without analyzing or judging. Complete acceptance and self-approval connect us to our light.

This is the alchemical process.


Discover what authentic self-approval feels like through these steps:

  1. Awareness: The first step and foundation.
  2. Acceptance: Creates space for growth.
  3. Allowing: Embracing the present.

I guide you to a state of ‘energy neutrality’— a spiritual tool and the essence of energy alchemy. Once learned, it shifts everything. You can become the alchemist of your life through The Art of Self-Approval™.


Radiant Inner Transformation

  • Enhanced Emotional Resilience: You'll no longer be held back by negative feelings, but will instead transform them and use them as fuel for growth and enlightenment; allowing you to navigate life's challenges with grace and strength.
  • Deepened Self-Awareness and Presence: Develop a profound connection with the present moment, breaking free from distractions and resistance. This heightened awareness will allow you to live more fully and authentically, experiencing life with clarity and focus.
  • Liberate Yourself from Judgment and Pain: Achieve a state of divine neutrality, where judgment no longer binds you to pain. This freedom will enable you to view yourself and others with compassion and understanding, fostering deeper and more meaningful relationships.
  • Increased Inner Peace and Light: By connecting with your divinity and inner alchemist, you will dissolve darkness into light, cultivating an inner peace that radiates outward. This newfound tranquility will enhance your overall well-being and happiness.
  • Empowerment and Transformation: Embrace your role as an everyday alchemist, empowered to transform your life. With the tools and insights gained from this program, you will create positive changes, align with your higher purpose, and manifest the life you desire.

These results will not only elevate your personal experience but will also ripple out, positively impacting all areas of your life.

Now Accepting Clients for Fall of 2024

We'll work together for 3 months and your investment is $,3500

Alchemy is a very individualized process for each of us is unique.

That's why I offer concierge coaching. That means you can schedule 15, 30, or 60-minute blocks of time as needed. You'll also have access to me throughout our partnership via text or email.



elaine blais

About Your Host

I'm Elaine Blais, a Professional Midlife Troublemaker, Finally First Mentor, and Certified Life Coach. Women hire me to help them overcome approval issues that have stopped them all their lives and finally put themselves first so that they can have more success in life and business. Nice to meet you and I look forward to working with you!

Will you say YES to you?


We love humans who are all in!! If you're in, you're in. This is a commitment you make to yourself. It's either "hell yes" or "hell no". There's no in-between.


Scroll to Top