Reclaim your personal power!


  • Unapologetically accepting and loving yourself
  • Trusting your own sense of knowing...without question
  • Living your life without worry or fear of what anyone else thinks

The Art of Self-Approval is the ultimate middle finger to culture, conformity, and 'nice girl' syndrome...and it's your pathway to personal freedom, peace of mind, and the success and fulfillment you dream of...and deserve!

This class is for you if...

➡️ You are often self-critical – even in small ways

➡️ You struggle with setting and honoring your boundaries

➡️ You 'should' on yourself...a lot and think you'll be happy 'when' something changes

➡️  You have a hard time saying 'no 'without feeling guilty

➡️ You often (or always?) put others first neglecting your own needs and desires

➡️ You hide parts of yourself because you've been led to believe they are the world never gets to enjoy the richness of who you truly are

Can you relate to some of this...maybe all of this?

These are just some of the ways we abandon ourselves!

I’ve done all of these things and still do some of them…I am a work in progress too.

None of this is your fault. We’ve all been conditioned to believe we are lacking or not enough in some way. This is total bullshit!!!

The Art of Self-Approval is having the audacity to make your needs and your life a priority…not at the expense of anyone else but in the pursuit of living the life you dream of.


Here's what you'll get in this introductory class...

  • For starters, you'll get two hours of sacred time to focus on you and you a supportive and safe space
  • A deeper sense of what you truly want
  • A peek into what's keeping you from that
  • Ways to begin the practice of self-approval...tiny steps towards big results
  • A playbook with the steps to guide you into greater self-approval every day of your life

Next Session

Coming Soon...Spring of 2023

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About Your Host

I'm Elaine Blais, a Professional Midlife Troublemaker (aka Difficult Woman) and Certified Life Coach. She works with women to overcome approval issues that have stopped them all their lives, finally put themselves first, and step unapologetically into self-approval so they can create more success and fulfillment in their life and business.

What Others Have Said:

I took Elaine’s class knowing I am a people-pleaser. I really want to stay true to my core beliefs even in difficult times. It was a wonderful journey of seeing where I've been so I could see my path illuminated before me and determine my next steps. I'm excited to continue approving of myself and showing up as myself in all areas of my life.

"Elaine is an astute listener able to ask questions that stopped me in my tracks and brought about startling clarity. Every conversation with her leaves me feeling lighter, full of hope, and ready to face a previously insurmountable challenge. Highly recommended!”

"Elaine Blais is the real deal! Participating in her class gave me energy and confidence around my job search. Before the workshop I was feeling stuck and resigned. The exercises opened up new insights about how to start being the professional I dream of, right now. I highly recommend working with Elaine."


When will this class be held?

Virtual classes are held on Zoom. In Person session locations vary and will be published on this page as they are scheduled.

How much does it cost?


You deserve nothing less than completely self-approval, to trust your sense of self, you inner knowing, and follow your dreams. This is just the appetizer!! 

What should I bring?

In person class you'll need a journal and something to write with.

Virtual class will need a computer with Zoom access, along with something to write with.

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